I know Jesus wins. That is not up for debate or question—He has already won. Yet, in the waiting, we feel the very real effects of sin and suffering in the world around us. What I have learned over the years is that when suffering comes, it is okay to weep and groan. Lamenting, crying out, and seeking comfort do not take away from Christ’s victory or the future glory we will one day see. Instead, they allow us to live in the tension of God’s unfolding plan of redemption. And in that, we are never alone—God is with us in our suffering.
It took me a while to believe this, but even when I feel alone in my suffering, God is there. Romans 8:26 tells us, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.” We may struggle to find the right words. We may be at a loss. We may feel weak. But the Holy Spirit is there, interceding and even groaning on our behalf. It is deeply comforting to know that even when I lose sight of hope, the Holy Spirit sits with me in my suffering, I’m not alone in my suffering.
I am grateful that God understands what we go through. We see this in a powerful way when Jesus weeps for the loss of His friend (John 11:35). He shows us that grieving is part of life. We will face circumstances beyond our control and understanding that bring pain. Yet, even in His weeping, Jesus ministered to Martha. I imagine the Spirit’s interceding and groaning happens in much the same way—sitting with us, strengthening us, reminding us that while we long for suffering to end, the hope we have in Jesus and the help we have in the Spirit allow us to grieve and still be okay.
Growing up, there were many times I felt alone in my suffering. I believed that being tough was the only way to get through it. But I was wrong. Jesus has taught me that it is okay to weep—because He is the one who will be strong for us and lead us through.
Praying for you all. If we can help in any way, please let us know.
Pastor Jeremy Johnson